SEPTEMBER 2012



SEPTEMBER, 2012

ARE YOU A NEW SIESTA MAGAZINE READER?

If so, then the message below if for you!

Since the STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED newsmail began in January of 2006, it has grown in length and popularity, now reaching multiple states in the US as well as several European countries. As SPM strives to offer a fresh look with each issue, Siesta Magazine has moved all contents to this blogspot site, which was created back in the spring of 2009. For those subscribing to Siesta Magazine through standard e-mails, reminder e-mails for the Siesta Magazine link discontinued in 2010. All subscribers who wish to continue reading each issue may keep this website address in their favourites and refer to it on the first of each month.

www.siestamagazine.blogspot.com

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SPECIAL NOTE:  With this new September 2012 issue, STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED pulls up the old 2009 issue with some editing to update it this year. 

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Visit STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED SPECIAL EVENTS for the latest announcements for the three most current speaking appearances for this month!

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

+ SPEAKING OF SIESTAS!
+ THE BOOK CORNER
+ PICK OF THE MONTH
+ RECIPE OR COOKBOOK OF THE MONTH
+ TIME MANAGEMENT TIPS
+ MOM TIME
+ SPECIAL FEATURE OF THE MONTH
+ QUOTE OF THE MONTH
+ PHOTO OF THE MONTH
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+ SPEAKING OF SIESTAS!
{ Pictured: Ulysses resting from his little kitty journey. DeNitto © 2006 }
  A siesta /siːˈɛstə/, original Spanish pronunciation [ˈsjesta] is a short nap taken in the early afternoon, often after the midday meal. Such a period of sleep is a common tradition in some hot countries. The word siesta is Spanish, from the Latin hora sexta - "the sixth hour" (counting from dawn, therefore noon, hence "midday rest").

At SPM the true definition is taken a bit further.  If a nap is not possible, but there is enough time allowed for any other type of break, it is strongly encouraged to take advantage of that precious moment.  As long as the mind and body can rest for a short period as often as possible during the work week, it can only enhance the quality of living.

Each month, learn more facts about SIESTAS and how you may benefit from taking them into your daily routine.

Below are SEPTEMBER's SIESTA FACTS:

Reaction time in a time of emergency can be improved by power naps!

In a time of urgency, would you feel rested enough to be able to deal with the stress and be able to make the right judgements on how to handle an emergency? A nap can certainly help in keeping well rested, increasing ability to react quickly and with accuracy.  It will aid in decision making and confidence in performing well in crisis.

POWER NAP HELPS TO KEEP YOU ALERT!

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+ THE BOOK CORNER

This section offers ideas for books related to various subjects including organizing, designing, lifestyle improvements, humour, business, psychology and green living.  During the year, the occasional novel or biography may also slip into an issue.

: BOOK RECOMMENDATION FOR SEPTEMBER :

TITLE: Organize for Disaster
AUTHOR: Judith Kolberg
COPYRIGHT: 2004, Second Printing-2007
ISBN:  978-0-9667970-4-6

This comprehensive guide covers disasters that could enter our lives at any given moment without warning, including inclement weather, chemical spills, wildfires, etc.  It would be a great book to have on hand for both individuals and families as a reference to know what recommendations are best for preparing for the worst and being able to recover as quickly as possible.

ORGANIZE FOR DISASTER
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+ PICK OF THE MONTH

SPM SPECIAL PROGRAM

Contact STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED for this special speaking presentation to help the general public learn about ways to protect their possessions and even their lives.

SPM019- EMERGENCY DISASTER PREPAREDNESS:   As one of several programs introduced in 2008, this one deals with all strategies for becoming prepared for various emergencies, including medical illnesses or injuries, natural disasters, vehicle accidents, inclement weather, identity theft, etc.  Learn what important items to keep stored in specially designated areas for such emergencies and what documents are most necessary to have in possession.

If you have a club or organization interested in having SPM appear for a free presentation with this particular program, contact SPM at stressedpressedmessed@gmail.com.

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+ RECIPE OR COOKBOOK OF THE MONTH

TITLE: The Storm Gourmet
AUTHOR: Daphne Nikolopoulos
COPYRIGHT: 2005
ISBN-13: 9781561643349

THE STORM GOURMET
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+ TIME MANAGEMENT TIPS

ONLINE DOCUMENT MANAGMENT

Save time and frustration with electronic document retention with membership in DELPHI VIM program which can be accessed through a computer with a user name and password!

Developed through the Delphi Center for Organization in California, this program allows documents to be archived online and includes the following categories:

FAMILY
FINANCIAL
LEGAL
HOUSE
INSURANCE
MEDICAL
PERSONAL

Each of those categories then include several sub-categories to make a search for a specific document as simple and time saving as possible.

Another great part of this program is that there is control as to who can have access to the records.  If medical information is needed by a doctor, access can be granted.  If one parent is away on business and one is at work and for some reason not be reached in at time of urgency, a babysitter or school can access medical  or insurance records.  If there is a financial advisor or accountant who needs a specific statement to cross reference for taxes, access can be granted.  It's all a matter of trust and granting access to the program.

DELPHI VIM VIDEO

DELPHI VIM  

**NOTE: This does not mean throw away all original hard copy documents or supporting documents.  Have a professional assist you in knowing what and how long certain documents are expected to be retained and what documents can be shredded or recycled after a certain length of time.
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+ MOM TIME

FORWARD:  A note from SPM MOM...

During the early 1990's, as a mother raising two children through their first years, I now learn of many new products that are thrilling to me, even with my empty nest.  I often find myself wishing that some of them were available 26 years ago.  Below are neat links and ideas to products or educational items currently on today's market for parents to explore for their children-- babies through college students!

Having children understand the importance of having skills and knowledge in preparing for disaster or common emergencies is quite helpful.  Great sites that parents and teachers can visit for more information on how to teach children awareness and preparedness are listed below:

FEMA FOR KIDS

RED CROSS  
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+ SPECIAL FEATURE OF THE MONTH

SEPTEMBER IS NATIONAL DISASTER PREPAREDNESS MONTH 

Perhaps being prepared for a disaster could somehow be compared to that of the first signs of a toothache.  No one would wish for a toothache to reach a point of utter agony where expensive surgery is needed with a painful recovery to follow.  Likewise, no one would want to not be prepared for an emergency and find that there may have been a way to prevent it altogether or to, at the very least, lessen the impact it may leave.

Unfortunately, when most people hear the words "disaster preparedness", their first, (and sometimes only,) thought is preparing for the possible onset of a powerful hurricane.  While preparing for a known hurricane in close proximity is certainly highly recommended, it is only one of over 35 possible "disasters" that everyone should be aware of as possibilities, depending on where and how they live.

Over thirty-five disaster possibilities???

Yes!  Though there is no need to panic, there are over 35 named disasters throughout the world, both natural and manmade.  Of course, not everyone is going to have the same list of disasters to consider.  Certainly, if someone does not live near a volcano, then it can be marked off of that person's personal list.  The same goes for hurricanes or blizzards if it is clearly not something that ever happens where a person chooses to live.  However, there are still so many other possiblities of events that can pass as disasters, even down to a simple thunderstorm, extreme heat or cold, a chemical spill accident or cyber attack.

So what else is on the list?

For a full list of disaster possiblities, the following events have been compiled from several disaster awareness and relief organizations, such as The Red Cross, FEMA and DHS.  Siesta Magazine has thoughtfully organized them into categories in order to give better attention to many of the less common possibilities.

- civil disorder
arson
looting
rioting
- cyber attacks
computer crashes
computer hacking
computer viruses
identity theft
- drought
- economic
recession
depression
- environmental & human or animial life hazards
chemical leak or spill
industrial (such as a mining catastrophy)
nuclear power plant accident
oil spill
extreme air pollution
technological production (such as a cancer causing substance being used to produce various items)
- extreme temperatures
excessive heat
bitter freeze
- fires
accidental
arson
wild
- floods
dam failure
flash
overflow (such as river)
excessive rainfall
- health & medicine
disease outbreak/epidemic/pandemic/plague
food or water contamination
famine
- plate tectonics
earthquake
tsunami
volcano
- power outage/blackout
- slides and sinkholes

avalanche
landslide
mudslide
sinkhole
- storms
blizzard
dust or sand
hurricane/typhoon/cyclone/tropical storm
ice
lightning
tornado
thunderstorm
- structural failures
bridges
buildings
roads
seawalls
- terrorism
agro
bio (in regards to antrax, for example)
cyber
eco
hijacking or kidnapping
narco
nuclear
piracy
state (as in conducted by governments)
suicide (in regards to car bombing, for example)
- transportation failures or accidents
automobile
aviation
railway
space
maritime
- war

Needless to say, not everyone needs to worry about many of the possible disasters as listed above, however, that is not to say, for example, that September 11th, 2001 did not occur.  No one in New York City ever would have guessed that such a horrific event could ever happen to the city's Twin Towers.  In just this past year, there have been two aircraft crashes in the Hudson River and one aircraft scare of a low flying plane over the Statue of Liberty, in which crowds became nervous enough to cause mild panic in Lower Manhattan.  Those who were present in Manhattan, in Virginia and Pennsylvania on 9/11/01 will never forget and will forever be mindful of such events actually occurring and want to make considerations as to what could be done to prevent future attacks as well as how to better deal with any such aftermath of disaster, whether it be natural or manmade.  The same goes for Katrina or Hugo victims, who shall also never forget the urgency and devastation caused by those powerful storms.

Disaster preparedness is not only about major disasters, as it can certainly include something as personal as an emergency situation of an automobile accident where there may be vehicle damage and physical injury or, heaven forbid, fatality.  Individuals and families should have emergency contact information with them at all times.  This can be in hard copy format in a glove box, a wallet or purse, as well as programmed into a cell phone as "ICE", which cleverly abbreviates "In Case of Emergency".  The code "ICE" allows anyone who is offering aid to find that number in the phone and dial it for immediate contact with family, friend or neighbor.

For information about how this idea originated back in 2005, click on the link below.

ICE YOUR PHONE

What to do and not to do in case of an emergency...

+ Think about what would need to be done "now" when in a calm and rational mood, enhancing throught processes to make the appropriate decisions and to develop the right plans ahead of time.
- Do not put off plans.  Do not procrastinate and be faced with panic mode, where decisions are made too hastily and therefore, your life and assets are at greater risk.

+ Create an escape plan now, in case of fire, storm, etc. which will ensure that you and those living or working with you are able to understand, remember and be physically capable of quick departure from a building.
- Do not wait until there is a threat to announce what that escape plan is.  Waiting too long holds the possibility of creating panic and possible chaos, which can lessen the chances of a successful escape.

+ Collect items for emergency at home and at work.  Put together a basic emergency kit, (as prompted on the various website links below,) which can be stored in a designated spot for easy access.  Check food items regularly for expiration dates.
- Don't wait until the last minute to collect and store these items.  Don't have the emergency kit spread around the space.  Don't have items with low shelf life, which may be harmful for consumption.  Do not over purchase, as this will only waste money and food.

+ Learn survival skills now.
- Do not attempt to practice certain survival techniques without knowing exactly what you are doing, as lack of skills and knowledge could cause further harm.  Call for assistance.

+ Organize your records now.  Have all of your records up to date and in a safe and easily accessible spot.  It's best to have most important documents in a grab-and-go box.  Know exactly where your proof of identity records, all insurance papers, financial statements, medical records and personal documents are so that you are able to transport them with you in a moment of unexpected escape.
- Do not wait to organize your paperwork.  You are surely to forget important papers in time of panic.  You are more likely to leave something behind that may be very necessary, such as proof of identity or medical information which could prove to be life saving.

+ Keep a hard copy list of contacts of family, friends, neighbors, relief organizations and various services in case you are away from home or stuck in a area where you are not allowed to come and go freely.
- Do not only have contacts in your cell phone or computer, as you may not have the power or a working satellite with which to make that contact.  Hopefully, if there is a professional there to assist you, the hard copy may be used with special communication devices in attempt to make possible contact with those listed.

As the Red Cross states on their website:  "Get a kit. Make a plan. Be informed."

It's not that difficult to make arrangements over a period of "average" time when there is little or no threat of anything happening out of the ordinary.  There is no sense in becoming bogged down in preparations all at once when simple strategies can be methodically planned and discussed over time.  It does not take much time at all to discuss a physical plan of escape from a building.  It does not take days upon days to collect items for an emergency kit.  It does not take hours to determine where the best place for that kit should be.  It does not take much time to simply be informed and to stay alert about possible disasters.  What takes a little time is paper management, which can be a lot easier with assistance from a professional who deals with paperwork on a regular basis.

Think about what how you would want to recover from a possible disaster and keep that idea in mind.  Prepare your loved ones and all assets to the best of your ability in hopes of a recovery as painless as possible.  Don't obssess about what is beyond your control, remembering that you can only do what you can do- as a human.  There will always be situations completely beyond our control in the end.  But, it certainly does not hurt to be well prepared for whatever we can control or at least, recover from more easily.

For curiousity, here are some links to historic moments of disaster in America.

DISASTERS IN AMERICAN HISTORY

TEN WORST DISASTERS

DISASTER QUIZZES

:PREPAREDNESS WEBSITES:

READY

CERT

RED CROSS 
Our nearest location is 2101 Pershing Ctr, West Point, NY
845.446.1090

FEMA

HOW THE NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF PROFESSIONAL ORGANIZERS ARE INVOLVED

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+ QUOTE OF THE MONTH

Plan ahead or find trouble on the doorstep.
--Confucius
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+ PHOTO OF THE MONTH




"Con Ed: Power for the City" ~ NYC - DeNitto © 2004

:: SIESTA MAGAZINE :: SPRING 2012












ARE YOU A NEW SIESTA MAGAZINE READER?


If so, then the message below if for you!




Since the STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED newsmail began in January of 2006, it has grown in length and popularity, now reaching multiple states in the US as well as several European countries. As SPM strives to offer a fresh look with each issue, Siesta Magazine has moved all contents to this blogspot site, which was created back in the spring of 2009. For those subscribing to Siesta Magazine through standard e-mails, reminder e-mails for the Siesta Magazine link discontinued in 2010. All subscribers who wish to continue reading each issue may keep this website address in their favourites and refer to it on the first of each month.

www.siestamagazine.blogspot.com

SIESTA MAGAZINE

Thank you for understanding about STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED simplifying! It just proves that SPM practices what it preaches!
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~COVER ART~
"Spring Berry Cobbler" -DeNitto ©1988 
(Make sure to see photo of the month at the end of this issue!!)

NEW INFORMATION ABOUT FOLLOWING STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED on FACEBOOK and TWITTER !!

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

+ BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS!
+ SPEAKING OF SIESTAS!
+ THE BOOK CORNER
+ PICK OF THE MONTH
+ RECIPE OR COOKBOOK OF THE MONTH
+ GREEN LIVING TIPS
+ TIME MANAGEMENT TIPS
+ MOM TIME
+ QUOTE OF THE MONTH
+ PHOTO OF THE MONTH
+ VIDEO OF THE MONTH *NEW!! 
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+ BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS!
  • ATTENTION MOMMIES!! If you are a future or new mother, please visit the official STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED *booth* at the MOMMYBITES SUMMIT on MAY 2, 2012 at The New Yorker Hotel from 6:00pm - 9:30pm! Complete details can be found in the link below! 
MOMMYBITES SUMMIT
  • FOLLOW SIESTA MAGAZINE ON PINTEREST!
SIESTA MAGAZINE
  • What's coming up in future issues? 
Here are just a few topics to look forward to!

~ Empty Nest Syndrome
~ Wardrobe Organizing
~ Back-to-School / Education
~ What Would STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED Do? 
               *Tips and Routines SPM Practices Regularly...
~ Kitchen Organizing 101
~ Organizing for Safety Around the House
~ Simple Pleasures - Organizing for the Five Senses
  • 2012 marks thirteen years for STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED's Professional Organizer, Madeleine DeNitto in the organizing industry!
  • In May, 2011, the STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED website was redesigned and updated!! Check out the fresh design at www.stressedpressedmessed.com.
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+ SPEAKING OF SIESTAS!






{ Pictured: Ulysses resting from his little kitty journey. DeNitto © 2006 }








A siesta /siːˈɛstə/, original Spanish pronunciation [ˈsjesta] is a short nap taken in the early afternoon, often after the midday meal. Such a period of sleep is a common tradition in some hot countries. The word siesta is Spanish, from the Latin hora sexta - "the sixth hour" (counting from dawn, therefore noon, hence "midday rest").

At SPM the true definition is taken a bit further. If a nap is not possible, but there is enough time allowed for any other type of break, it is strongly encouraged to take advantage of that precious moment. As long as the mind and body can rest for a short period as often as possible during the work week, it can only enhance the quality of living.

Each month, learn more facts about SIESTAS and how you may benefit from taking them into your daily routine.

Below are SIESTA TIPS/FACTS:
As a mother raising two children only 14 months apart in age, it was crucial that I keep a daily routine, at least on weekdays, for a 2:00pm nap, whether it be just for them or for the three of us. It would depend on whether or not I was sleepy or just needed utter peace, if even for a short period of time. My daughter, the oldest, was hardly a napper, while her younger brother was an over napper. While I would be walking on eggshells to not make a single noise that might disturb my daughter, (who might not even have fallen asleep to begin with,) to purposely make household noises to wake up my son, who would have slept into the evening, with the potential of not waking up until the next morning.

As our napping routine was clearly out of balance with one alert child and one seemingly sedated child, it was always important that I was in tune to their special needs, which were quite evident in that one required little sleep, while the other was quite pleased to enjoy hours upon hours of slumber. The motherly instinct in me was to acknowledge those days when extra sleep was needed for my son and allow him that option, while explaining to his older sister that she had to honor his rest and keep quiet while entertaining herself. She soon came to understand that he would wake up to return as her playmate... eventually.

With this routine training, both of my kids seemed happy, healthy and well rested. They were in tune with their own time clocks and became aware of their body signals. There were even days when they simply put themselves down for naps! Part of napping, for them, was actually the *fun* of it. They did not sleep in their beds for these naps, rather, they used small floor "mattresses" with the thickness of a baby crib mattress, using separate sheets, pillows and blankets. It felt more like a temporary event for them in that they didn't feel as if they might miss something fun or important going on with me, their toys, their friends or snacks--- the usual things tots tend to focus on. They were able to bring anything they wanted to their napping mats, be it books, stuffed animals, dinosaurs or other harmless toys. I would often close their bedroom doors and stand frozen in the hallway listening to them talking or singing as they adjusted to get comfortable. They would pull up their blankets, push them down, kick them off... whatever it took to train themselves to find that "moment" in which they might give in to drifting off.

The nightly routines were not the same, as "going-to-bed" felt quite different for all of us. It was a bit more work, being that dinner and baths were included before a bedtime story. It was also darker, of course. The point was for them to feel comfortable with both daily napping and nightly sleeping and be able to appreciate and honor both as something that was needed, healthy and fun.

Another thing that I noticed as a mother ensuring that my kids had nap routines is that they were more adjusted to other daily routines, their minds processed information and time more easily and they were sick less often. These were my personal observations about my own children and not observations that I would necessarily be able to make about other children. Every child has unique needs and all parents find what those needs are an try various methods for their children to sleep, eat, play and socialze, etc. As parents, we tend to find out what works through trial and error and learn well from those errors.

On another note about napping... here is a minor tip with a major impact!! As a young mother living in a popular neighborhood with fantastic neighbors and friends popping over from time to time, most of the other mothers had almost the exact napping time as we did, which was convenient to all of us. Unfortunately, our mailman did not follow our lead and would make such a fuss at our door to "give notice" of mail being delivered to our wall box. He would use our door knocker and bang loudly on our door, which sounded like gunshots from within the house. More than once, this even woke up that sedated son of mine with such a terror that I would have to console him during such moments... that is once my own pounding heart calmed down. SOLUTION??? I placed a "DO-NOT-DISTURB" sign on our doorknob and taped down our knocker for him to take the hint. I must say, the door sign, in particular came in most handy!! It was a direct hint to anyone approaching our home during those toddler years, proving that such signs are not just for hotel room doors! Ha!!

TODDLER NAP MATS
TODDLER NAPPING GUIDE ___________________________________________________________

+ THE BOOK CORNER

This section offers ideas for books related to various subjects including organizing, designing, lifestyle improvements, humour, business, psychology and green living. During the year, the occasional novel or biography may also slip into an issue.

: BOOK RECOMMENDATION FOR SPRING 2012 :

TITLE: Gardening With Children
AUTHOR: Beth Richardson
COPYRIGHT DATE: 1998
ISBN: 978-1561581924

Though published in 1998, there are still a lot of cute ideas in this book for gardening with your kids! I especially liked the "themed" gardens, such as "pizza garden" and "pasta garden" in chapter seven.

GARDENING WITH CHILDREN
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+ PICK OF THE MONTH

If you have wee ones who seem eager to learn about water this summer, check out the great tiny tot swimming pools from the One Step Ahead Spring 2012 catalog!

These two gentle pools seem like a great way to gradually introduce tiny toddlers into the wide world of water with comfort and safety. The Li'l Squirt pool is wide and flat with tiny water spouts to cause giggles for sure while the Soft Seat pool offer extra sitting comfort from bellow, as well as above with its shading canopy to keep the harsh sun away from baby's skin! Also, the Soft Seat pool can be converted into a ball pit, by ordering the balls separately.

Li'l SQUIRT BABY POOL
SOFT SEAT BABY POOL
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+ RECIPE OR COOKBOOK OF THE MONTH

KID HEALTHY MEALS

If you want a nice recipe for your child's lunch with the nutrition facts included, this site can help a lot in creating healthy and fun meals for young children.
KIDS HEALTH

The top recipe picks from STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED are listed with the links below.
PIZZADILLAS
CRUNCHY WRAP
TOTS

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+ GREEN LIVING TIPS

It's time to Greenganize!!! (an official SPM term!)

With April's official Earth Day winding down, it should actually be strongly encouraged for children to believe that every day should be honored as an Earth Day. With that in mind, parents can easily become good role models for their children by demonstrating the necessity to recycle as well as to repurpose certain items creatively for the sake of the planet. After all, the children are always next in line to inherit what the elders have left behind, so leaving behind the good is what everyone wants.

Here are two fun recycling craft projects using beverage containers. The first one using a simply milk carton that could be painted with flowers and leaves to attract birds, while the second one could be used either for Barbie dolls or scuba action figures for fun in the tub!

MILK CARTON BIRD FEEDERS
BATH TOYS

Now is the time to embrace the green.......

In future issues, Siesta Magazine will offer more tips or product guidelines with the latest information on how to adopt routines of green living!
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+ TIME MANAGEMENT TIPS

KIDS... FROM PLACE TO PLACE...
The importance of scheduling in advance in order to best know the whereabouts of your children if not always in your view...

As a young mother raising kids through the 1990's and into the mid-2000's, (actually, scratch that mid-2000's nonsense because once a mother, mothering tends to stick for life and I find that they still ask for advice on a regular basis,) there was at least one thing that helped me stay many steps ahead of the day-to-day routines... and surprises. That one thing was having the calendar filled in with color coded events to know exactly what was expected of each member of the family. This included husband's work schedule, so that I would know when I could call-on-a-favor to have one or both kids dropped off or picked up from ballet, piano or voice... or fencing or chess... or school sporty activities... or concerts... or sleepovers... or parties... and so on and so forth. (As you can guess, raising kids involves a tremendous amount of *travel* on a regular basis.) On certain days of the week, there was also carpooling in which several of us parents would take turns driving several kids to school, activities or events. Before that, there was "walk"pooling, as walking with a parent as a guide to cross streets, etc. was helpful when the kids were very young since we all lived in the neighborhood of our school. All such *travels* took careful coordinating. If other parents were participating in such walk/carpooling, inserting reciprocating dates were of utmost importance. If you have parents helping you with your children, certainly the considerate thing is to help them in return in some way!


As children only grow and become more and more busy, the key to family members remaining safe and sane is to maintain a constant updating system. In keeping up with the schedules of family members, a centrally located calendar and information station is very helpful for everyone to check daily. This can be the perfect place for messages and reminders for other family members to find. This center can become a well-tended communication headquarters for families, in addition to or instead of the use of a phone calls or texts or e-mails. Not only will the calendar be updated regularly by each family member, but school info sheets, frequently used documents, directions/maps, various memos, event reminders and party invitations can be easily accessed in this special spot. In addition, a directory of restaurant menus and frequently contacted services can be kept at hand, as well as emergency information, such as a medical directory. 
*For a great example of a medical directory, check out the Siesta Magazine August 2009 issue here:  
SIESTA MAGAZINE - AUGUST 2009 ISSUE: MEDICAL DIRECTORY

If you have a busy family, a central family connection center is highly recommended and will ease a bit of worry or frustration in trying to handle the many affairs of those living under one roof. It can certainly put a mother's mind at ease to know where her little ducklings are at any given time... even when they become bigger ducks in high school. Once they leave the nest, this center can still be used as reference for the kids' college or work vacations, which can be kept at hand to plan for holidays and other visits, as well as remaining an efficient method of communication and scheduling purposes for spouses.

FAMILY CALENDAR... A MUST! Below are two recommended communication centers.
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+ MOM TIME

FORWARD: A note from SPM MOM...

During the early 1990's, as a mother raising two children through their first years, I now learn of many new products that are thrilling to me, even with my empty nest. I often find myself wishing that some of them were available as long ago as 24 years! Below are neat links and ideas to products or educational items currently on today's market for parents to explore for their children-- babies through college and beyond!

*MOM* ... *TIME* ... Two utterly important words that everyone needs to understand and honor. If a mother does not have enough quality time to enjoy herself in peace and personal growth and discovery, it's possible for such an important figure to feel like a hollow shell, simply going through the motions of daily routines. With this in mind, it is never too early for a new mother to set goals... with appropriate guidelines for family members to understand... and practice. As you may have already read in the "Speaking of Siestas" section above, setting up napping routines is very important with young children, not only to give them adequate rest, but to also allow a mother the option of simple peace, time to handle tasks uninterrupted or time to join in on resting. This is one of what can be many guidelines for family members to acknowledge. A healthy and well rested mother is usually a happy mother. A mother who has personal interests, hobbies and/or career outside of the home in addition to raising children can be a mother who ends up more in tune with her family.

Knowing that there is a balance between hyperfocusing on children, spouse and SELF is quite rewarding and healthy. This means that having ample time to oneself, as a mother, is rather essential. This includes developing systems of keeping well organized, both with time and with possessions well maintained and easily accessible. The more organized a mother can be, the more time may be found for moments of quality time to use for the important things in life. An organized mother has more time to spend enjoying her children, her spouse, her work... herSELF.
  • The Cost of Being Disorganized Can be Equal to Draining the Life and Time out of a Mother...
If a mother finds herself caught in a cycle of never knowing where her keys are, her calendar, her child's medical records... or her spouse complains that there is no more tea or toilet paper... or her children complain that they have no more soap or clean towels, these may be signs of needing to take a major break from such frustrating moments to tend to the house and develop systems and to designate spaces for important items. If there are filing systems for important documents to be stored, it eliminates the wasted time and frustration in searching for such things, enabling a mother to read her child a story. If supplies are well stocked and laundry is a regular task, family members won't have to complain and a mother can attend a movie with her spouse. If keys, wallets and phones are always kept in one logical place, a mother can grab and go on a moment's notice to pick up a sick child from school, meet a friend for coffee, or attend an yoga or drawing class. A mother can be ready for the expected... and unexpected... when well organized.
  • Yes, Organizing an Entire House is Time Consuming... BUT....
Organizing an entire house can be time consuming when attempted at once, but certainly not impossible. With the goal of creating precious *time*, such an organizing project of this size is more than worth the effort, as it gives a mother a most priceless reward--- herSELF. A mother can remain a person with private needs in addition to be a doting wife and mother by having a well organized home, family and life. With time, a mother can be herself and enjoy her family and those pesky home tasks become less of a burden. As children grow older and are able to handle small tasks, a mother can find even more time to enjoy those important and priceless moments. 
  • Keep the SELF...
The point is to not lose the SELF. Even if it can only a be a once-a-week personal activity, a mother should engage in personal time. This could be as simple as staying at home in the garden, joining a book club, taking a swim at the gym, attending a gardening class or having a lunch with a different friend each week. Over time, these moments of person time can increase. Whenever and however the time may be spent, it can be very uplifting and rewarding. 
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+ QUOTE OF THE MONTH

And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. --Anais Nin 
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+ PHOTO OF THE MONTH




This is the same itty bitty boy from the cover!! Kids grow up and do things like finishing college, joining the Peace Corps and live in foreign countries like Nicaragua and Peru! That was what this kid did. He will soon return home to NYC and prepare for the LSAT. But, even in his now mid-20's, he is still asking for advice from Mommy and suggesting I cook his favorite meal soon. Once a Mommy, always a Mommy...

-Hodges ©2012


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+ VIDEO OF THE MONTH *NEW!! 

CHALKHILLS AND CHILDREN by XTC
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:: NEW YEAR ISSUE :: JANUARY 2012










ARE YOU A NEW SIESTA MAGAZINE READER?





If so, then the message below if for you!



Since the STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED newsmail began in January of 2006, it has grown in length and popularity, now reaching multiple states in the US as well as several European countries. As SPM strives to offer a fresh look with each issue, Siesta Magazine has moved all contents to this blogspot site, which was created back in the spring of 2009. For those subscribing to Siesta Magazine through standard e-mails, reminder e-mails for the Siesta Magazine link discontinued in 2010. All subscribers who wish to continue reading each issue may keep this website address in their favourites and refer to it on the first of each month.

www.siestamagazine.blogspot.com

SIESTA MAGAZINE

Thank you for understanding about STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED simplifying! It just proves that SPM practices what it preaches!
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~COVER ART~
"OFFICE SHELVING NEATENED UP" -DeNitto ©2008

NEW INFORMATION ABOUT FOLLOWING STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED on FACEBOOK and TWITTER !!

FACEBOOK

TWITTER

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

+ BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS!
+ SPEAKING OF SIESTAS!
+ THE BOOK CORNER
+ PICK OF THE MONTH
+ SPECIAL FEATURE OF THE MONTH
+ RECIPE OR COOKBOOK OF THE MONTH
+ GREEN LIVING TIPS
+ TIME MANAGEMENT TIPS
+ MOM TIME
+ QUOTE OF THE MONTH
+ PHOTO OF THE MONTH
+ VIDEO OF THE MONTH **NEW!
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+ BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS!

With another year hitting, 2012 marks thirteen years for STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED's Professional Organizer, Madeleine DeNitto in the organizing industry! With each issue this year, watch for special discounts, stories of experience, and special thank yous and spotlights to come!!

In May, 2011, the STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED website was redesigned and updated!! Check out the fresh design at www.stressedpressedmessed.com.

For LATEST ANNOUNCEMENTS click here!! Check out the *DESK DISORDER MESSY WORKSPACE MAKEOVER CONTEST* with this link!! STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED is accepting applications for one lucky winner to be chosen to receive up to FIVE FREE HOURS of ORGANIZING and several prize products!!::NEW YEAR:: FRESH 2012 ANNOUNCEMENTS!!
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+ SPEAKING OF SIESTAS!





{ Pictured: Ulysses resting from his little kitty journey. DeNitto © 2006 }









A siesta /siːˈɛstə/, original Spanish pronunciation [ˈsjesta] is a short nap taken in the early afternoon, often after the midday meal. Such a period of sleep is a common tradition in some hot countries. The word siesta is Spanish, from the Latin hora sexta - "the sixth hour" (counting from dawn, therefore noon, hence "midday rest").

At SPM the true definition is taken a bit further. If a nap is not possible, but there is enough time allowed for any other type of break, it is strongly encouraged to take advantage of that precious moment. As long as the mind and body can rest for a short period as often as possible during the work week, it can only enhance the quality of living.

Each month, learn more facts about SIESTAS and how you may benefit from taking them into your daily routine.

Below are January's SIESTA TIPS/FACTS:

CRASHING AT THE OFFICE? TEETERING IN THE STUDIO? SLOUCHING DURING COMMUTES?

Taking a nap during the day --away from home-- is a heartbeat away in Manhattan and other major cities!

TAKE A SIESTA AT YELO SPA!
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+ THE BOOK CORNER

This section offers ideas for books related to various subjects including organizing, designing, lifestyle improvements, humour, business, psychology and green living. During the year, the occasional novel or biography may also slip into an issue.

: BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS FOR JANUARY 2012 :

POTTERY BARN: WORKSPACES
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+ PICK OF THE MONTH

Need a great link for your office, studio, craft room or library? Choose from the ones listed below or visit the SPM LINKS PAGE at the STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED site!

OFFICE

THE CONTAINER STORE
DOCIT
FIELD NOTES
MOLESKINE
NEW PRODUCT SPECIALTIES GROUP
OFFICE SUPPLY GEEK
PENDEFLEX
POTTERY BARN OFFICE
RUSSELL & HAZEL
SEE JANE WORK
STACKS & STACKS
STORABLES OFFICE

STUDIO

VISUAL ARTS


A I FRIEDMAN
ARCHIVAL METHODS PHOTO SUPPLIES
B&H PHOTO STORAGE
DICK BLICK ART SUPPLIER
EXPOSURES
GREAT USEFUL STUFF[KANGEROOM STORAGE]
KATE'S PAPERIE
KOLO PHOTO ARCHIVING
LEE'S ART SUPPLIES
PEARL PAINT ART SUPPLIER
PRINTFILE PHOTO SUPPLIES
UTRECHT ART SUPPLIER

MUSIC

HERTZ MUSICAL INSTRUMENT STORAGE
JW PEPPER SHEET MUSIC STORAGE
WENGER CORP SHEET MUSIC STORAGE

CRAFT / SEWING ROOM

AC MOORE
SCRAP BOX
SIMPLY RENEE

LIBRARY

GAYLORD LIBRARY SUPPLIES
LEVENGER
TALAS
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+ SPECIAL FEATURE OF THE MONTH

- - - - - ORGANIZING WORKSPACES - - - - -

- - - COMFORT - - -

E-R-G-O-N-O-M-I-C-S

After years of repetitive digital photography work and typing, STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED found out how it feels to not have proper workspace in 2011, in spite of the fact that a poor desk situation was a temporary setback. Upon a recent and urgent transition from a home that became fairly infested with mold as a result of Hurricane Irene, we left behind productive office spaces and began a search for new desks for our new place. Our search was lengthy in finding just the right size, design and quality and ended up having to have two desks custom designed from a Shaker furniture company in Pennsylvania, taking nearly six weeks to be completed, shipped and delivered to our new place. For about 8 weeks, STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED was run from a folding table, so small that it fits into the trunk of my sporty car. It was a scream of "less-than-ideal" and with the torture of poor posture, eyestrain and vitually no surface space to use for writing, filing, reading or storing supplies, it literally became a painful experience. And with such poor conditions came not only a long bout with carpal tunnel syndrome, but another injury extending into what seemed to be repetitive strain injury, know as RSI. In spite of taming the carpal tunnel pain, the pain began to move and change, where it lingered into the spine and threw soreness into the opposite arm. The RSI could have been extended from physical exertion with client work, but there is no specific cause from how one led to the other. In any case, the pain extending to other parts of the body became too painful to contain without the aid of a doctor and a prescription who also gave me *homework* of dealing with the inconvenient hot and cold therapy several times a day. The situation lingered on for weeks.

The *other* homework was to stay away from the computer and Blackberry, which was certainly a bit challenging when working and responding to e-mails. But, in the end, the pain finally went away and having been forced to make phone calls to respond to e-mails was actually a welcomed and pleasant "old school" experience!

Now that the new desk is set up, there are still some adjustments to make, but it has certainly made a difference in posture and levels of productivity. However, in fear of ever having a repeat of that level of pain with carpal tunnel, computer sessions are more carefully monitored with time span limits, as well as proper breaks of stretching and other helpful activities to chop up the sedentary moments of office work.

Below is a great link for information about proper care and comfort in the workplace, click here! WORKSPACE ERGONOMICS

- - - AMBIENCE - - -

When working, you want to like the space you are working in. No one wants to be in a space that is not visually appealing or smells funny or is too dark. Not only can these issues affect mood and productivity, but some of them can also lead to health risks, including that of airborne respiratory conditions to depression.

Clutter is an issue that can cause anxiety and drain a lot of energy and positivity from the mind. By simply neatening up a workspace, the mind can be released from stress and frustration and productive thoughts and actions can replace procrastination and poor attitude.

EXAMPLES:

Here is the office of a musician's home studio where clutter had become an issue due to procrastination and raising small children.




















After some clearing of items which were not needed and the shelving unit was used more to an advantage with the items that were needed, the space became more of a joy, rather than a frustration and eyesore. It certainly became more productive for being able to return to teaching music students.












































Here is a craft room with so much accumulation that it became temporarily impossible to find anything, much less create anything handmade.
































Here is the space after organizing the supplies into appropriate storage containers which are not only accessible, but pleasantly appealing.

- - - PRODUCTIVITY - - -

PAPER CRAZY!



















In spite of our wonderful technology, the complaint remains that we are still inundated with loads upon loads of paper. To keep afloat, dealing with paper must be a regular routine-- much like a routine such as brushing one's teeth-- as in daily. I don't know of a single Professional Organizer who would argue about dealing with mail as immediately as possible upon its arrival into the home or workplace. Creating action and filing systems is a must so that each paper that makes its way to a surface is dealt with by a quick method. There is no set rule as to how to label files or in/out boxes and it's best to create titles that best fit the person's memory. When it comes to files, there have been some creative clients who choose file names as unique as...

*ex-wife problems*
*keep-me-out-of-trouble*
*idiocy*
*stuff I hate*
*I have to do this crap once a year*
*Hello Kitty obsession*
*proof that this doctor is nuts*
*I need to fire this person*

Whatever it takes to keep it in the memory bank!





Once categories and sub-categories are set, the filing can begin by use of standard filing cabinets, wicker file baskets, file totes or clear plastic hanging file boxes.








Paper management is often thought of as overwhelming, particularly if dealing with legal or medical records. However, if tackled initially with logic, it can be handled more easily than expected, lowering those levels of anxiety.

For a large project involving numerous boxes or stacks of paperwork, the simplest way to begin is to follow the steps listed below.



1. Set up your sorting station. This can be done easily by setting up an area of a room with a shredder, recycling bin, trash can and by clearing a flat surface for sorting papers by category.

2. It's best to set up simple categories on the first sorting session before setting up a new sorting area for the sub-categories. Begin with only three to four categories, such as

HOME | WORK | PERSONAL | MISCELLANEOUS

For the first sorting, personal can include anything not related to the home or work, but not thought of as miscellaneous. For example, *PERSONAL* can include greeting cards, letters, childrens' artwork or medical records. Later these will become sub-categories and separated away from the first collection.

3. Remove whatever appears to be unusable, such a junk mail, advertisements, expired deals or coupons, etc. Place such items where best suited, such as recycling for those coupons or shredding for items with personal information.

4. Once this first round of sorting has been completed, a second round of sorting can begin by taking one category and creating sub-categories. For example, the *HOME* stack can be made into several smaller stacks, including such sub-categories as

UTILITIES | INSURANCE | DECOR | MANUALS & WARRANTEES | MAINTENANCE | MORTGAGE

5. After completing all sub-categories, decisions can then be made as to what might be the best way to file such information. In many cases, a combination of the suggested filing cabinets or boxes with binders is a great way to go.

6. Following such a large paper management project, a system for daily paper handling is necessary in order to help prevent paper accumulation from reaching a level so high that it causes files to be misplaced or inadvertently thrown out.

With these simple steps, paper management can be brought to a certain level of control. Yet, with really large paper accumulations lasting over a year, having a professional assist with the sorting can be the best way to deal with such large quantities of files. A professional can also point out the latest filing methods or materials that would best suit the space or decor, so this is a great thing to keep in mind.

- - - STORAGE - - -

Want great storage ideas? Scroll back up to the *PICK OF THE MONTH* section for many links to find just the right type of containers, furniture and other supplies to keep your supplies easily accessible and tidy.
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+ RECIPE OR COOKBOOK OF THE MONTH

STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED welcomed in the new year with a most delicious homemade pizza! It's a *must-try* recipe!

ALASATIAN PIZZA
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+ GREEN LIVING TIPS

It's time to Greeganize!!! (an official SPM term!)

January Tip: Hurry! Catch these e-waste dates!

Is one of your resolutions to properly dispose of your old or non-working electronics?? If you live in New York City, catch one of these dates in January closest to your location and make a date with yourself... or ask friends to join you!

Make sure to also read the guidelines of what items are accepted and what items are not before you carry anything cumbersome across town!

E-WASTE DATES!

Now is the time to embrace the green.......

>>In future issues, Siesta Magazine will offer more tips or product guidelines with the latest information on how to adopt routines of green living!
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+ TIME MANAGEMENT TIPS

Here are five tips that keep the day rolling when working at a desk with a computer.

> If your mouse and keyboard are wireless, it's handy to keep a supply of fresh batteries nearby. This is especially helpful when in the middle of an important document or digital project and the mouse suddenly dies, with a fairly instant relief for what could have been a more lengthy interruption.

> Home office? Have a business address stamper handy for any snailmail correspondence, saving writing time and keeping things neat and professional.

> Create a list of tasks on a daily basis, including time limits for each task, if necessary. Cross each task off as completed, boosting confidence and decreasing anxiety of needing to get everything done.

> If still receiving paper invoices, keep a *paid* stamper handy when payments are made, proving to yourself later, the date, amount and method of payment made to that bill. This also comes in handy for online or draft payments when a hard copy is requested by an accountant.

> Keep surface areas as clear as possible at any given time as this helps in finding what you need in a matter of seconds. Clear stacks of files and documents regularly, idealy at certain times of the day or week, in order to come back to a tidy workspace, rather than face disorganization when needing to catch a deadline.
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+ MOM TIME

FORWARD: A note from SPM MOM...

During the early 1990's, as a mother raising two children through their first years, I now learn of many new products that are thrilling to me, even with my empty nest. I often find myself wishing that some of them were available as long ago as 24 years! Below are neat links and ideas to products or educational items currently on today's market for parents to explore for their children-- babies through college and beyond!

WORKSPACES FOR KIDS

With so many people working from home these days while raising families, there can be issues with interruptions and space boundaries. While it's wonderful to be close to family members, it is often challenging to stay productive in a home office, studio or workshop if there are interruptions. Another challenge is that items that do not belong in the workspace, such as jackets, a long lost lunchbox, homework or toys, find their way to surfaces, chairs and floors. This can be frustrating as some of these items can land on top of important documents or materials or be hazardous if tripped over on the floor.

When it comes to young children, if the act of compromising can be taught, it can be one of easiest ways to handle such a work dilema inside the home. If a certain corner of space can be allowed for a child to use as their own workspace. This will give a child a better understanding about keeping their own materials in their workspace and they can begin to recognize when not to interrupt. Introducing timer bells with children in a workspace can be helpful, as the child can watch a timer to see how long they might need to wait before they can have your attention.

Children grow from learning how it might be to be adults. So much of what they do as children is to pretend to be grown up when they play imaginative skits with friends, dolls, robots or stuffed animals. They play post office, pretend to be doctors or cowboys, or play chef with their kitchen sets. Part of the reason they interrupt is that they are curious as to what Mommy or Daddy *do* as working adults. A great way to enhance their learning experience is to allow them time and space to grow in with special terms. The terms are showing them where their space ends and yours begins, explaining about time issues and interruptions as well as explaining that when they use their special space, their activities should be quiet, such a reading, artwork projects or mastering their homework assignments after school.

There are so many wonderful play tables and shelving unit that will give children some productive space of their own--- from toddlers through about fourth grade, at which time they are out more with friends or prefer to be in their own rooms more and more--- also known as the time when they no longer thing their parents are all that cool afterall.

You can view some small *workspaces* for children by clicking on the direct links here!

LAND OF NOD

POTTERY BARN KIDS

LAKESHORE LEARNING

TOYS TO GROWN ON

SCHOOL BOX

IDEA PAINT

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+ QUOTE OF THE MONTH

A hard beginning maketh a good ending. --John Heywood
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+ PHOTO OF THE MONTH






















Work Coffee Break -DeNitto ©2010

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+ VIDEO OF THE MONTH **NEW!!

And now for a selection of vintage lounge music to propel everyone's level of happy spirits and productivity!!

ESQUIVEL
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:: MAY 2011 ~ THE GARDEN ISSUE ::











ARE YOU A NEW SIESTA MAGAZINE READER?





If so, then the message below if for you!



Since the STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED newsmail began in January of 2006, it has grown in length and popularity, now reaching multiple states in the US as well as several European countries. As SPM strives to offer a fresh look with each issue, Siesta Magazine has moved all contents to this blogspot site, which was created back in the spring of 2009. For those subscribing to Siesta Magazine through standard e-mails, reminder e-mails for the Siesta Magazine link discontinued in 2010. All subscribers who wish to continue reading each issue may keep this website address in their favourites and refer to it on the first of each month.

www.siestamagazine.blogspot.com

SIESTA MAGAZINE

Thank you for understanding about STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED simplifying! It just proves that SPM practices what it preaches!
=====================================================
~COVER ART~
"WILD ROSES AFTER FRESH RAIN" -DeNitto ©2007

NEW INFORMATION ABOUT FOLLOWING STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED on FACEBOOK and TWITTER !!

FACEBOOK

TWITTER

=====================================================

TABLE OF CONTENTS

+ BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS!
+ SPEAKING OF SIESTAS!
+ THE BOOK CORNER
+ PICK OF THE MONTH
+ RECIPE OR COOKBOOK OF THE MONTH
+ GREEN LIVING TIPS
+ TIME MANAGEMENT TIPS
+ MOM TIME
+ QUOTE OF THE MONTH
+ PHOTO OF THE MONTH
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+ BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS!

2011 marks twelve years for STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED's Professional Organizer, Madeleine DeNitto in the organizing industry! With each issue this year, watch for special anniversary discounts, experience stories, and special thank yous and spotlights to come!!

Stay tuned for the STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED website to be redesigned and updated with the fresh site to come in mid-May!!
__________________________________________________

+ SPEAKING OF SIESTAS!






{ Pictured: Ulysses resting from his little kitty journey. DeNitto © 2006 }








A siesta /siːˈɛstə/, original Spanish pronunciation [ˈsjesta] is a short nap taken in the early afternoon, often after the midday meal. Such a period of sleep is a common tradition in some hot countries. The word siesta is Spanish, from the Latin hora sexta - "the sixth hour" (counting from dawn, therefore noon, hence "midday rest").


At SPM the true definition is taken a bit further. If a nap is not possible, but there is enough time allowed for any other type of break, it is strongly encouraged to take advantage of that precious moment. As long as the mind and body can rest for a short period as often as possible during the work week, it can only enhance the quality of living.

Each month, learn more facts about SIESTAS and how you may benefit from taking them into your daily routine.

Below are May's SIESTA TIPS/FACTS:

RELIEVING STRESS IN THE GREAT OUTDOORS ~ SIESTA NOOKS

Back in 2007, STRESSED.PRESSED.MESSED added property staging to the standard and specialty services already offered. As part of property staging, SPM branched out into the Water, Earth & Manor name and was able to direct attention not only indoors, but outdoors, as well with the tagline "Stage to Sell... Stage to Live!" A lot of people call in stagers to assist with preparing a home to go onto the market, but few realize that calling in a stager can also adjust the comfort level of a home that is not going up for sale.

Relaxing outdoors can be such a release of stress when your outdoor environment is inviting and clutter free. With gardening being a theraputic outlet to relieve stress, you can also enjoy the work done as your plants grow and surround you with rich colours, frangrance and oxygen. Your yard can easily serve as a backdrop to a calm and peaceful area to spend hours upon hours of time.

Aside from the obvious gardening tasks, there a number of other ways to make a home more comfortable outdoors. Some of the simplest ideas are listed below.

> Removing any clutter from yard, whether it's gardening tools, empty pots, garbage that blew into the yard, unused hoses, piles of branches, vehicle parts, children's toys... you name it. If it's unsightly, doesn't belong where it is or is considered unusable, perhaps it should be removed.

> Raking. Yes, that's right... something as simple as raking can make a big difference in the "neatness" factor when viewing an outdoor space.

> Setting up a place in the shade for a place to sit and relax. This can be a bench, chair, hammock or swing. Particularly, if you were to use a hammock or even a cot, this area could be what Water, Earth & Manor refers to as a "Siesta Nook", as it is a place where you could take a short nap or simply be able to meditate quietly. You can create as many nooks as you want throughout the property. Keep in mind that you won't want any garbage or compost bins near your nooks that make create odors and you may not want to be near anything that makes noise, such as an air conditioner.

> Add lighting to your special nooks, such as candles, solar or electical lighting posts for early evening hours. Candles and string lights are certainly the easiest and most inexpensive ways to have lighting instantly.

> Investing in a simple small fountain can produce a touch of water sounds that can whirl a weary brain into a peaceful lull.

> Subtle garden decor can add depth to a bed of flowers or a corner of grasses. Sculptures, glass balls, birdbaths and other garden decorative pieces can be found most anywhere and create personal touches to natural settings.

> Dining is enhanced when outdoors and can be enjoyable in certain climates and when certain pests are kept away. Even if you don't have a full patio table and chairs, a simple bistro table with ample seating is all that is needed.

Below are samples of Siesta Nooks! The first four are personal creations in various locations where SPM has resided in years past.

Nooks to sit peacefully...






















Paths to stroll through...



















Small spots to enjoy simple meals...






















Hidden corners tucked away for true Siestas involving short periods of sleep...





















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+ THE BOOK CORNER

This section offers ideas for books related to various subjects including organizing, designing, lifestyle improvements, humour, business, psychology and green living. During the year, the occasional novel or biography may also slip into an issue.

: BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS FOR MAY :

The book links below cover everything from vegetable, flower and container gardening to small plots of outdoor gardening for those without large spaces.

EDIBLE GARDENING

CONTAINER GARDENING

SQUARE FOOT GARDENING

HERB GARDENING
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+ PICK OF THE MONTH

Speaking of outdoor lighting, Pottery Barn has a good selection of outdoor lanterns!

LANTERNS
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+ SPECIAL FEATURE OF THE MONTH

CURB APPEAL... IMPORTANT??

Curb appeal is not only important in selling a home, but living in one, as well. Whether planning to stay in a home or sell it, give youself, as well as visitors, a warm welcome upon arrival. A fresh appearance to a home creates a sense of invitation and that time spent there will be enjoyed.

It can be rather draining to arrive at a house or any other type of structure that is less than appealing on the outside. It can create a tense feeling of having second thoughts about giving the inside a chance. After a long day at work, the last thing anyone wants to do is arrive to a home that will only continue to pull energy away from the soul.

NO-NO-NNNNNO! You can barely see the house! What house?? Allowing foliage to overgrow in front gives off a notion that the house could possibly be in disrepair, even if it is not. Why would anyone want to visit or purchase a home that they cannot really appreciate upon first view? A first impression is very important... and long lasting.

















Certainly better than before, but dull and not exactly warm and inviting.

















Yes!! Not only is the area completely cleaned up, but now with colour added on roof and foundation, fresh plants, neatened path to entrance, railing on porch, new steps and an invitation to sit on the porch, this house has made a powerful statement. With colour and porch upgrades, the house became quite charming!


















Below is another example of good curb appeal! With good use of colour contrasts, a swept porch with minor use of container plantings, this home sends out a warm welcome to those strolling down the sidewalk.

























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+ RECIPE OR COOKBOOK OF THE MONTH

Great for a snack in the garden!

I didn't have to open this cookbook for a split minute before finding a simple recipe-- to-make-my-mouth-water --on page 16 of Quick Fixes! This and many other vegetarian recipes can be found in the book.

BLACK BEAN SALSA

1 plum tomato
1 avocado
1/3 cup chopped red onion
1 (15 oz.) can black beans, rinsed and drained
1&1/2 Tbsp. chopped fresh cilantro
1 Tbsp. olive oil
2 Tbsp. lime juice
1/8 tsp. dried crushed red pepper
1/8 tsp. salt

- Dice tomato.
- Peal, seed and dice avocado.
- Combine tomato, avocado, onion, beans and cilantro in a bowl.
- Whisk together oil and next three ingredients.
- Toss with bean mixture.
- Cover and chill, if desided.
- Serve with corn chips or totillas.

TITLE: Quick Fixes {with mixes}
AUTHOR: from the editors of Southern Living
COPYRIGHT: 2010
ISBN-13: 978-0-8487-3331-5

QUICK FIXES
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+ GREEN LIVING TIPS

It's time to Greeganize!!! (an official SPM term!)

May Tip: Garden Supplies

For many years, I have enjoyed the pages of my Gardener's Supply catalogs because of the wide variety of items to help with landscaping and gardening. Gardener's Supply is a great source to get started with what you need whether you are just starting out or have been an avid gardener for years.

GARDENER'S SUPPLY

Now is the time to embrace the green.......

>>In future issues, Siesta Magazine will offer more tips or product guidelines with the latest information on how to adopt routines of green living!
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+ TIME MANAGEMENT TIPS

SAVE TIME IN THE GARDEN>

The beloved potting shed...

Once upon a time, I designed my own potting shed for my back garden. This shed served as a place to pot my seedlings to get them started before planting in the actual garden areas of our yard. I designed it as a simple square, starting with a cement floor, three brick sides, a cinder block back wall and a slanted roof consisting of a wood framing with a plexi-glass greenhouse roof. I requested a rolling window to one side and searched for a single French door for the front. With the special roof and ventilation, my plants could have ample sunlight, protection from inclement weather and be away from garden pests as they grew strong enough to survive in the actual landscape.

Entrance to the garden shed straight from paths circling a large Oak tree.

Pleasant view from inside of the potting shed...

Supplies on the homemade shelving built into the back cinderblock wall.


Homemade potting bench with lower shelf to hold water and soils, etc.





















With this design in mind, my potting shed actually helped save me a good bit of time in wandering from point to point to check on my seedlings, giving them the time they needed for better survival once moved to their permanent spots in the garden. The shed also saved time in that all of my tools, soil mixes, pots, etc, where in one place. Not only was everything accessible, but out of site to anyone venturing into the gardens for enjoyment. It's not attractive to view a commercial bag of peat moss out in the middle of a yard. Any tools thrown about can become not only an eyesore, but a hazard. Clutter can be outdoors just as well as indoors.

If there is no way to have a potting shed, a simple corner of a yard will certainly suffice. Any spot that can contain tools, pots, etc. can serve as a designated spot specifically for your garden work and planning. You can easily find seeding trays at suppliers to use for getting your seeds started. These can be covered and placed neatly in areas that receive ample sun, shade and moisture levels appropriate for plant types.

The key is to have what you need, where you need it, when you need it and that wherever that might be, it should be be out of view so as not to cause unsightly distractions.

If you do have space in your yard and are wanting to build a garden shed of your own, below is a link specifically for shed design projects.

SHED KITS
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+ MOM TIME

FORWARD: A note from SPM MOM...

During the early 1990's, as a mother raising two children through their first years, I now learn of many new products that are thrilling to me, even with my empty nest. I often find myself wishing that some of them were available as long ago as 24 years! Below are neat links and ideas to products or educational items currently on today's market for parents to explore for their children-- babies through college and beyond!

GARDENING FOR KIDS

Kids have a keen sense of the world and are often curious about Mother Nature. Parents can easily encourage their kids to enjoy and respect nature by learning about gardening right at home. This is also a great way to show how organizing is helpful in planning for anything as simple as potted flowers or terrariums or as challenging as a full vegetable garden. Children tend to be fascinated by the simple observation of a seed germinating into a sprout, much less a plant growing and later budding flowers or growing food!

Gardening will teach children organzing, patience, health and nutrition as well as a direct appreciation for the beauty of nature. Children can also realize what is easy and what is not so easy about gardening, which can teach then to be thankful for farmers who dedicate their lives to helping feed the world. Gardening is a peaceful, calming and overall theraputic activity enjoyed so much by adults that it only makes sense that it would be enjoyable for kids, as well.


















Include your kid with garden projects. The fairy garden shown here was a special spot in our garden created with my kids for their enjoyment along one of the many secret paths I made for them.

For parents wanting to get their children involved in gardening from an early age, below are links to planting and tools. Also included

WILDLIFE GARDENING WITH KIDS

GARDENING TOOLS FOR KIDS

PLANT SELECTION

TICKLEME PLANT
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+ QUOTE OF THE MONTH

Man masters nature not by force but by understanding.
--Jacob Brownowski
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